What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 07:07
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Do straight guys like to have sex with men when they smoke meth?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
The Ice Breaker Questions
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
What does it mean when someone is pretending to be me?
29- How superstitious are you?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
What is the lowest probability event you have personally witnessed?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
Any that are a turn off?
Are there any industries or sectors where ChatGPT is particularly well-suited for implementation?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
Why does my sister want to have sex with me? What should I do?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
Is Matt Gaetz qualified to be Attorney General of the United States?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
How is it not psychopathic to use someone for sex, even if they agree?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
*** Questions About Me ***
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
Have you ever had your crush reject you, and then later you all dated and married?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Would you read them together?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
62~ Have you used adult toys?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
*** Random Questions ***
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Any that are a turn off?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
If yes, what?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
Family Relation Age Play
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
52~ What are your hobbies?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Please share Did you stop?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
How old are you? Male or Female?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
Nothing too Serious
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
39~ What are your love languages?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?